You know what I keep seeing from these 40+ guys? "No Fat Chicks!" Followed up by...."No offense I just like a nice trim body!" The hell you say. Well I like a real man. Not a judgmental, narcissistic ass. And have you seen most of these guys? They are shooting for the moon...believe me. They want a hot bod as arm candy. Forget that she could be the knife wielding loon who rips to shreds his clothes or stalks him for the next 6 months when things go south. And trust me....they will go south if all he is basing his match on is looks.
Nope...we don't want the down to earth, caring "fat" girl. We want a great big dose of great looking crazy.
There also seems to be a lot of 40+ guys looking at girls 18-30. I have to laugh. Guys, there is probably one of several reasons those girls would date you. One....too make her daddy crazy. Two....to use your money to go out with her "real" boyfriend. Three....to get your house, your car and the clothes off your back in the divorce settlement, and four.....because she has daddy issues and you are old enough to be her daddy.
At the 40+ stage of the game....shouldn't we be a little more into realistic and a little less into fantasy? Perhaps I need to redo my profile and maybe it should read: "No small dicks." At least with an overweight woman, what you see is what you get. A guy with a small dick...well sometimes that catches you by surprise a little later in the game. Or maybe it should say: "No men with hairy backs." Mow that thing once in awhile. How about "no men with macho idiot mustaches?" Yeah...I want to kiss you and know what you had for lunch. Oh I know...."no bald men." If I can't run my fingers through it...then you must be defective in some way.
I think I have made my point here. The fat chick maybe a work in progress and the woman of your dreams...but you will never know because you put boundaries based on nothing but looks. That could totally be your loss man.
My profile reads: "I want Mr. Real." Mr. Real could have a few extra pounds, could be bald, hairy and sporting a mustache. He could be short, tall or have a limp. Whoever he is though..."he will be real."
I sport a few extra pounds and am in the process of shedding them. I look good though. Perfect? No...but for my age, I look good. Six months from now I will look even better, but on the inside I will be just the same: caring, loving, a bit sarcastic and one hell of a catch. Sadly though, some of you with boundary issues will never know that. And you know what....I am good with that. Are you?
Here's hoping that your Tuesday is as sunny as mine. Happy Tuesday everyone!